I have a confession to make. My favorite show on television is……wait for it…….Dance Moms. I know, I know go ahead and judge me. I enjoy watching an over weight, white woman yell at little girls. I can’t help it, it’s my guilty pleasure and it is darn entertaining.
One of my favorite dancers on the show, just made one of her proudest fans even prouder. Nia Sioux, debuted her first music video, Star in Your Own a Life, in late April. The song is a sweet sentiment for anyone who feels left out or like a full-time back up dancer to some one else’s coming out party. With lyrics like “Your happiness is on you, No matter what just keep fighting and push through,” the 13-year-old dancer expresses to kids of all ages to let go of all doubt and to believe that you are a bright, shinning star in your own life. A message Nia probably knows oh so well, since she has danced five years in a Dance Company that seems to only push and support those lucky favorites (Maddie). However, even with this clear favoritism, Nia hasn’t stopped her dreams of becoming a singer or an all around entertainer. Without the help of her Dance Teacher and manager, she managed to create a beautiful visual with the help of her mother, Holly, Aubrey O’day and a well-known LA based team. A lesson to all, if someone refuses to help you, help yourself.
Even though the entire dance community is rooting for Nia, there has been mixed reviews on her video. Some say it’s too sexy for a 13-year-old. The argument some viewers express is that Nia looks far too grown with her hair extensions and midriff section showing. To these commentators I say, you haven’t been watching the show. Nia is a dancer and an exposed midriff is something as natural to a dancer, as good posture. I agree, Nia is a mature, young woman, but that adds to her sweet charm. Her height adds to her maturity and of course the makeup and hair extensions makes her look older. It makes everyone look older, including myself. What everyone fails to understand is that Nia has been wearing makeup and weave since the first season of Dance Moms. This is the world she comes from, it is nothing new for her.
On a positive note, everyone seems to love the song and the message behind it. It is sung beautifully and I can’t detect a spec of auto-tune. The song is something you can here on the radio and it isn’t the Kids Bop trash we were expecting. I for one am pleasantly in love with Nia’s single and music video. Her dancing was amazing and in synced with her back up dancers, but most importantly her song was delightful. Watch Nia’s first music video and tell me what you think!
Comment Below: Too Sexy or Just Right?!
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18 Comments
YourGrandma
wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to sexy, she’s like 11
come on
Laura
Actually she is 14.
heidi
lol, she’s super old now
Catherine Yahiaoui
ZI do not like it. You cannot hear her voice and cannot make out what the words are. It is too sexy for a 13 yr old. I like Nia, but this is not right for her.
Kate Riley
I definitely see what you are saying, but I think the writer is right when saying this is the world she comes from
Anonymous
I said put your hearing aid on because you can hear what she is thinking of very clearly life is a runway so walk it out.it’s not too sexy and it is appropriate for what the kids are listening to And want to hear and see these days. Just be happy for her and stop nitpicking nia is a star in her own life and we her fans are loving it.
niafan1123
I agree, I love the song and am super proud of nia
Anonymous
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Gilbert Bryan
I am proud of Nia, but I don’t love it
Anonymous
Nia,is a beautiful,talented,dancer and singer. Wonderful job Nia! Keep going for your dreams.
Gabrielle Amani
Agreed! She’s so talented
penney
she is beautiful . I don’t like the part where two men was wearing a underwear. JUST A UNDERWEAR ! its too grown for 14 year old year don’t you agree ? but rather than that I liked it. it might don’t make since a little and the dance was all around the place but I like it.
Jerolina Janes
Anonymous, could you be Holly? Pretty sad. I like Nia but you’re really starting to worry me!
Kelly R.
why would you think that is Holly? Who has the time to comment on articles all day?
cj tyleer
Exactly, lol Holly is a grown woman, she don’t have time for that
Nancy Loyal (@NancyLoyal)
I loved it she was great. The message was positive and her voice was on point! She rocked it and I was proud as a dance moms fan and a Nia fan.
duh
Well Said! I thought the song was great, however i can see why people would think this is too grown.
Anonymous
the video is fun is a bit grown but those are modern dance move what i expect for dancers to wear. The scene with the dancers in underwear and body paint was a very poor choice it did not play well for so many reasons.