Valentine’s Day is approaching, and as we prepare for a romantic meal or a Galentine’s meetup, some of us will be spending this wonderful day with multiple people. Let’s be honest, we’ve all done it before. I’ve put together some suggestions to help you enjoy your Valentine’s Day with your man who isn’t your man, potential boo, or maybe a sneaky link.

Choose Wisely

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to spend Valentine’s Day with a couple of different people as long as everyone knows you’re a free agent so there aren’t any expectations. If you have several suitors for the day, you must consider the location and time. Spending Valentine’s Day with multiple individuals can be tough and time-consuming. If you can keep your number under three, that’s ideal. However, if you want to divide your time between two, you’ll need to plan your day accordingly.

Don’t Over Commit Yourself

Reduce tension by being realistic about your time restrictions and establishing clear expectations from the beginning. Keep the dates to a single location (each date, a different location) and explain your availability explicitly. This will keep you from becoming worried, as well as your dates from being disappointed.

Location & Time

So two guys have asked you out on a Valentine’s date. Suppose one has invited you to brunch and the other has invited you for a cocktail later that evening. Allow adequate time between dates so you can rest and prepare for the next one. Keep it sweet and simple on these dates; they shouldn’t be too long and intimate. Enjoy your date before moving on to the next!

Valentine’s Day really doesn’t have any set rules. If you want to enjoy this day exploring new things with different suitors, why not? Have fun with it, being able to get cute, taken out and have another date planned afterwards can have some peaks. Whatever and whoever you choose to enjoy the day with, be safe and again have some fun! 

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