Why do people think they can win at this game called Life alone? Is it because people yearn for control?  We are taught to follow our hearts and believe in  ourselves and that we can rise above as long as we can dream it, we can achieve it. Bullshit.  Lebron James is one of the best basketball players of this decade and yet he only has 2 championships out of his 6 appearances at the finals. The Cleveland Cavilers along with Lebron aren't favored to win this year's   championship as well.  However, Lebron doesn't win because of his self merits;…